Sexual communication
The
most challenging part of a good marriage relationship is getting what you want
from your partner sexually. Couples are embarrassed either not concerned about
talking about Sex. The main reason for couples for the embarrassment is that
they feel whether the other person will be a misconception that the person is
the same always and has these kind of perverted thoughts.
Sexual
communication isn't perverted-ness. If it is so then, no marriage life will be
a healthy one. Understand what you want and also understand what your spouse
needs. Discuss more about this and this one thing is not something that will
end up in one day. If it ends in one day then it is well and fine.
Having
sex without fighting will be the best part of your marriage life. Dissatisfaction
in sex, leads marriage life to problems that will take you misunderstandings
and divorce. Relationship breaks are also part of dissatisfaction in sexual
life.
What
are the things that are to be considered for sexual communication:
v Think before you talk.
v Set the mood
v Give explicit directions
v Be positive
v Use your hands
v Employ positive support
Think before you talk:
Think
before you talk. Your intentions should be to improve your sexual life than to
punish your sexual partner. At the end of the day, happiness should only
prevail. Consider your partner's feelings before you talk.
Set the mood :
Set
yourself the right mood to talk about sex. Avoid distractions and be free
enough to speak to your partner.
Be positive
Do
not always begin with what you do not like rather than begin with the things
that you like or things that will pleasure you during sex. Do not always think
in your perspective.
Give explicit directions
Eliminate
criticism and negativity to avoid hurting your spouse’s feelings. Say to your
partner to look into your eyes when you unbutton my shirt, kiss me and run your
finger down my torso.
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