Know About the G-Spot
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G-Spot is not buried somewhere deep within the depths of the vagina in some
nook or cranny. You shouldn't have to send out a search party to find it. The
location of the G-Spot can vary from lady to lady, with some having theirs
closer to the entrance of the vagina and some having theirs farther back, but
just follow this technique and you shouldn’t have any problems finding it. It
is best to do this in a highly aroused state. It can be difficult to find when
not aroused, as it is usually a small area that becomes quite enlarged during
arousal. Take a lubed finger, whichever is most comfortable. Turn your palm up.
Now insert the finger barely inside the vagina, staying on the
"ceiling" of the vagina. Now very slowly move the finger deeper into
the vagina, being sure to stay against the "ceiling". You will soon
find the pubic bone. You can't miss it. Once you find the pubic bone, move back
just a little bit farther. Again, be sure to stay on the "ceiling".
Move just behind the pubic bone and feel around for a small area about the size
of a bean, or so. It has a different texture than the surrounding area. I like
to describe the texture as being similar to corduroy, as it has ridges. I have
also heard it described as feeling spongy. That will be the G-spot.
¬ The
G-Spot was named in 1944, after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg.
¬ Try
various means of stimulating the G-Spot. Try rubbing little circles, try moving
your finger back and forth (like you are telling someone to "come
here"), try pushing against it, and try tapping on it. Be sure to get your
lady's feedback to see which method she prefers.
¬ Some
ladies are going to have a greater reaction to G-Spot stimulation than other
ladies. Everyone is different, remember? For some ladies, it produces little or
no result. Other ladies claim an earth-shattering out of this world orgasm that
resonates from deep within the body and takes them to euphoria with a side
excursion to nirvana and bliss.
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is true for some women that G-Spot play may become more likely to result in
orgasm over a period of weeks or months after first starting to experiment with
it. So, if you see little or no results at first, give it some time. As the
saying goes, if at first you don’t
succeed, try and try again.
¬ Some
experts claim that G-Spot orgasm intensity may be directly related to PC muscle
tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises, like
Kegels.
¬ Anytime
you are stimulating the G-Spot, your lady may feel the urge to urinate. This is
normal due to the fact that the G-Spot is right up against the bladder. The
G-Spot is sometimes referred to as the urethral sponge, as it is the muscle
underlying the urethra.
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when you stimulate the G-Spot, your lady may actually ejaculate. This is very
normal. It doesn’t
happen every time and it doesn’t
happen to every lady. If it does happen, celebrate it. Don’t make her feel ashamed, guilty, or
embarrassed. Reassure her that it is normal and tell her you are glad that it
happened because it is evidence that you really did a great job of pleasuring
her!
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G-Spot is not in the vaginal wall itself, but felt through it, and may
therefore require more pressure to stimulate it, according to Dr. Beverly Whipple.
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experts believe the G-Spot may actually be the roots of the clitoris
crisscrossing the urethral sponge. These experts refer to the G-Spot as the
"clitoral cluster".
Try the 77 Sex Position to Hit Your Woman’s G-Spot
You're undoubtedly familiar with the 69 position for mutual oral
sex, but you may not have heard of the 77 position for stimulating the G-spot.
The name "77" refers to the way you and your partner's bodies look
when they meld together in this side entry position. It's similar to spooning
but with a twist. The unique angling practically guides the penis to her G-spot.
The woman should lie on her side with her man behind her so that
they both are facing the same direction. She then wraps her legs around his top
leg and pulls him close, pushing her butt toward him as he enters her. Once
he's inside, she should straighten her legs in tandem with his so that they're
tightly sandwiched together, toes pointed. They should stay connected as they
simultaneously bend at their waists, while extending their legs at a 45-degree
angle away from their bodies. Folding over and assuming the 77 position in this
maneuver changes the angle of penetration, creating a direct penile pathway to
the front vaginal wall where her G-spot is located.
Some women need a little build up to a G-spot orgasm, so if it
feels a little too intense at first,
back off on the pressure or change the angle of penetration until
you’re ready for more direct pressure. The clitoris and the G-spot are
connected, so stimulating the clitoris while really pushing against the G-spot
can be the key to taking things to the next level. Don’t be afraid to direct
your partner to thrust harder (which doesn't always mean faster!), touch your
clitoris, or do whatever you need to maximize your pleasure.
G-spot orgasms are the most intense orgasms I've ever experienced.
They create a powerful, flushing feeling that spreads outward, resonating not
only in my genitals but throughout my entire body. The intensity of G-spot
orgasms may be directly related to pelvic floor muscle tone, which is another
incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.
One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being
"sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women
claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and
65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled
that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually
exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm.
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