- In men, the most common way of
achieving orgasm is by the stimulation of the penis
- In men, sufficient stimulation can
be achieved during vaginal or anal sexual intercourse, oral sex
(fellatio), or by masturbation
- In addition to physical
stimulation, orgasm can be achieved from psychological arousal alone, such
as during dreaming (which may be a nocturnal emission)
- Pelvic thrusts become less
voluntary and other muscles of the body begin to contract rhythmically
- Penile erection
- Testicular elevation and size
increase (Tumescence)
- Cowper’s gland (pre-cum)
secretions
- Nipple erection
- Heart rate, blood pressure and
respiration all increase
- Bladder sphincter closes tightly
and the penile shaft propel semen outwards
- Towards the end of orgasm, semen
is usually ejaculated and may continue to be ejaculated for a few seconds
after the euphoric sensation
- But some men, who are incapable of
ejaculation, are still capable of orgasm
- Most men’s sexuality is focused on
the goal of ejaculating, rather than on the actual process of lovemaking.
- Once a man becomes multi-orgasmic
he will not only be able to better satisfy himself, but also more
effectively satisfy his partner.
- Multiple male orgasms include only
orgasm but not ejaculation
- Ejaculation initiates the
refractory period in males
- During this time, most men are
unable to achieve another erection or even receive further stimulation due
to the loss of sexual tension and the penis is usually too sensitive to
touch
- Since women are not to ejaculate,
they do not have this annoying feature and are able to learn about and
achieve multiple orgasms much easier than men
- To understand that orgasm and
ejaculation are distinct events
- The ability to separate these
events involves the pubococcygeal muscle, or pelvic floor muscle, this
muscle for its ability to stop the flow of urine in mid-stream
- Make yourself comfortable and then
begin masturbating as you might normally
- Stop just before you reach the
point where you would ejaculate, Contract (squeeze) and hold your
Pubococcygeus muscle for a count of ten
- Allow yourself relax and take a
few minutes break begin masturbating again, this time bringing yourself
just a bit closer to the point of no return, again contracting
pubococcygeus muscle
- Speak to your partner and share
your experiences in becoming a multi-orgasmic man
- Breathing exercises and aerobic
exercises will help in this
- Multi orgasms also help in
overcoming other sexual problems such as premature ejaculation
Because of this, there is currently an experimental interest in drugs which inhibit prolactin, such as cabergoline may be able to eliminate the refractory period altogether, allowing men to experience multiple ejaculatory orgasms in rapid succession.
The technique can be used by anybody regardless of sexual orientation.
Orgasm control is sometimes called "slow masturbation", but any method of stimulation (such as oral, sex toys or intercourse) can be used by the active partner, not just manual stimulation.
Orgasm control differs from the forced orgasms practices of orgasm denial, tie and tease and tease and denial