"Foreplay"
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Literally means "the play that comes first," the play
that you engage in before you go the distance together. We engage in
before you go the distance together. We generally think of this in physical
terms: foreplay builds intrigue, excitement, and desire-creating
readiness-before sex. Foreplay is time well spent, because it makes the whole
experience more satisfying. Intellectual foreplay offers a variation on this
idea: it is the stimulation and interest that is created between two people when
they communicate effectively. Intellectual Foreplay means taking the time to
discuss important questions with a prospective partner and to discover
compatibility before you "go the distance" and make a commitment to a
relationship. Just like its physical counterpart, Intellectual Foreplay can
build excitement and desire-or quickly reveal a lack of compatibility, saving
you months, or even years, of developing a relationship that isn't going to
work.
If you know where to
touch her, you've conquered half the challenge
¬ A woman's body is an
amazing thing. They are curvaceous and graceful, and just soft enough to
cuddle. And when you use your big, manly hands to touch her in precisely the
right spots, she melts. The problem is, they are women. She is not going to
tell you where she wants to be touched, how hard, or for how long. She is going
to make you guess and if you get it wrong she will pout. For years if we have
to. Well, it's about time somebody handed you a road map. And the map I have
put here doesn't just show the major highways. This is complete visitor's guide
marked with fast lanes, pit stops, and scenic overlooks. Follow my routes and
you'll take your partner exactly where she wants to go without stopping to ask
directions.
¬ The number one mistake
married guys make during sex? Not enough kissing. It's a big one, Women love to
kiss, and I've heard a lot of them complain that guys just don't spend enough
time on it. But don't just do it more, do it betters. Try varying the intensity
(kiss her softly, then more passionately, then slow it down again). When you're
done with her lips, move on to her cheeks, eyelids, forehead, nose, neck, or
earlobes. Bonus points if you kiss her for several minutes without letting your
hands roam (focus on the kiss), and let her indicate when she's ready to move
on.
¬ You've noticed that a lot
of women play with their hair? It's not just a nervous h nervous habit; we do
it because it feels good. Chances are she's wishing you would play with it,
too. The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since she's probably
not expecting you to lavish any attention on it, surprise her. Having her hair
brushed can be a very sensual experience or run your fingers through it as
you're kissing her or simply caress her scalp gently with your hand. Bonus
points for washing or blow-drying (just leave the actual styling to her-you'll
never get that thing with her bangs to work out right).
¬ Breasts are familiar
territories for most men and they're fun, so it's unlikely you'll shortchange
them. The mistake you're more likely to make is o make is giving them too much
(or too vigorous) attention before she's ready. Over-stimulating the breast can
be numbing or painful for women during some parts of their menstrual cycle. Try
taking the less-is-more approach, Touch her breast softly, then lift your hand
away from it and let her have that important moment of anticipation. Stick to
indirect stimulation of the nipples until they become aroused and don't just
focus on the bulls' eye. Keep in mind that the entire breast is rich in nerve
endings.
¬ Don't make the mistake of
making her breasts the only stop on your way to the main event. That's wain
event. That's what she's expecting. Surprise her by asking her to lie on her
stomach (or on top of you) and massaging her lower back. Besides being rich in
nerve endings, the small of the back has pressure points where stress can
accumulate. A massage there might not turn her on in the same way that sucking
on her nipple or rubbing her clitoris will, but it'll feel good and help
release stress, What's more, it could even help with arousal, by increasing
blood flow and engorgement in the pelvic area. Start by applying steady but
moderate pressure with your fingertips and if she likes it, work up to a deeper
massage. Bonus points for placing a few kisses there as well.
¬ Here's where you can
really get creative. Try tenderly kissing the backs of her knees, the insides
of her arms, her inner thighs, or the hollow of her neck. Women love to have
these areas gently stroked, kissed, licked, or blown upon. These areas are all
also made of very soft tissue, so treat lightly. Gentle stimulation is going to
be much more arousing than pressure that's hard or rough. Catching her off
guard can be half the fun. A lot of people don't realize that having a tongue
going up their inner arm is going to be erotic. It's the allure of the novel.
And if you're paying attention to these spots, the pace tends to be
leisurely-that's going to do a lot for her, too.
¬ Ready to get to the
bottom of things? A lot of women like their buttocks attended to, and with more
vigor than you might think. You can use pressure on a butt that you wouldn't use
on a breast. It's not sensitive the way a nipple or a clitoris is so you can
knead them and squeeze them. Bonus points for complementing her rear as you
work it.
¬ The perineum, the area
between the vagina and the anus, is very sensitive for a lot of women and it
often goes unexplored. It's made from tissue similar to the vaginal lips so
there are a lot of nerve endings there. It also has an element of intimacy that
might turn her on. It's not a part of the body that's normally exposed, so she's
going to feel like she's giving you special privileges, which can be exciting.
Because it's sensitive, stick to a light touches at first and hold off until
she's been aroused for some time. For a smoother experience, try using a little
artificial lubricant or massage oil.
¬ For women, it's the most
erotically charged spot on the body. But for many men, it's still a mystery. It
doesn't have to be. It helps to understand that the clitoris is made of the
exact same tissue and has the exact same nerve endings as the head of the man's
penis. So while it's fine to tease the clitoris now and then throughout
foreplay, there's going to come a time when she'll going to need direct
clitoral stimulation. Once the excitement gets to a certain level, she's going
to enjoy consistent stimulation through her orgasm. Stimulate her clitoris
orally or manually as part of your foreplay. Or, during intercourse, you can
help give it extra attention by riding "higher" than usual or, better
yet, letting her get on top. One other thing you should know about the
clitoris. While men usually become hypersensitive after orgasm and want
stimulation to stop, women prefer clitoral simulator clitoral stimulation to
continue through straight through their orgasm, and sometimes even afterwards.
It continues to feel good and sometimes they might want to dive directly into
round two.
¬ A little creativity can
go a long way when we're talking about sex. Here's a tip: Try sucking on her
fingers or toes during foreplay or intercourse (granted, unless you're a
contortionist, the toe thing may be a bit rough during intercourse, but you can
usually find her fingers). They're a lot more sensitive than you might think
and for whatever reason, a relatively large area in the brain receives
sensation for them. Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them, especially
combined with the sensations you're causing in her genitals, can be incredibly
erotic. Some women can even reach orgasm just by having their feet massaged.
¬ The G-spot may be the
granddaddy of the erogenous zones, yet it's still one of the most controversial
and experts don't even agree on whether or not it exists. But there's no harm
in looking. Orgasms that originate from the G-spot feel different for her than
those that originate from the clitoris. You're aiming for a sensitive area
halfway between the back of her pubic bone and her cervix. If a woman is lying
on her back and you insert a finger or two palm up, you can use a 'come here'
motion to stimulate it. During intercourse, the best position to stimulate the
G-spot is with the woman on her back, legs up and pelvis tilted forward, and
you kneeling in front of her. For bonus points, try giving her a "blended
orgasm" by aiming for both her G-spot and her clitoris at once. Rear-entry
position is best for this, since your penis will hit her G-spot and you'll
still have enough maneuverability to reach around and stimulate her clitoris
with a finger.
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