The Reasons You and Your Lover May Have Different
Sex Drives
If your relationship is in turmoil because one
partner has lost his or her interest in sex, the explanation might be
psychological or medical or something else entirely, such as a secret attraction
or affair. But there other, simpler explanations as well, rooted in lack of
good communication.
Here are three very common reasons behind
Here are three very common reasons behind
"Sexual disconnect."
1. Gender
1. Gender
If you're a heterosexual couple, the problem
could just be that what arouses men is often very different from what arouses
women. A man may respond more quickly, whereas a woman's arousal may be more
like "warm water that slowly is brought to a boil," says Joy
Davidson, PhD, a New York City–based psychologist who's on the board of directors
of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counsellors and Therapists.
"You might conclude that his libido is higher than hers," Davidson
says. "It's not the case. They are processing stimulation differently and
responding to different cues."
2. Priorities
2. Priorities
There also may be a difference in priorities,
says Davidson: "If one person thinks having a passionate sexual
relationship is critical, absolutely central to the marriage, and the other
sees it as the icing on the cake, that is not a libido difference, it's a
difference in values."
3. Experience
3. Experience
Someone with little prior sexual experience
may simply not know yet what will turn him or her on. Your relationship is just
the place to experiment with this mystery. Exploring it carefully and
sensitively is generally good for both partners.
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